الثلاثاء، 7 أكتوبر 2008

Friendship


When we think in youth we find extremely strange things .For example ;we will find so many boys and girls brought up on Islamic principles, but to our great disappointment ;we may find that they don't follow the Islamic orders .They may listen to music , make friendships with the other sex ,don't wear Islamic clothes ,smoke ,don't look after Islamic affairs ,abandon the Holy Quran,........etc.
On the other hand; we may find boys and girls whose parents don't look after Islamic orders and principles, but to our great astonishment they follow the Islamic orders and exert utmost effort to obey Allah.
Don't you exclaim when you see the two types?!
We see these diversities because of the diversities in friendship.
Some friends lead their friends to Hell and some friends lead their friends to Paradise.
Bad friend will lead you to the worst .He gradually pull you to his manner and behaviors and consequently to deviation .At the end you will not obtain anything except the anger of Allah and regret.
So obey Allah in what he says in the Holy Quran;
"واصبر نفسك مع الذين يدعون ربهم بالغدوة والعشى يريدون وجهه ولا تعد عيناك عنهم تريد زينة الحيوة الدنيا ولا تطع من اغفلنا قلبه عن ذكرنا واتبع هواه وكان امره فرطا"
And you should remember our prophet's order;
"المرء على دين خليله فلينظر احدكم من يخالل"

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